This Runner's Trials

A better week

Posted by runnerstrials

Thanks so much for listening to my whining last week. I really appreciate all of your suggestions – and it was such a relief to hear that so many of you have been in my shoes.

It’s funny. I keep thinking in terms of Dopey. When I look at this past week, I kept getting down on myself for not doing enough for only being 4 weeks out from a marathon. But when I look at things in terms of Thunder Road, I’m really proud of myself. Hitting 30 miles in a week at only 4 weeks post-marathon is a lot for me.

So, that’s what I’m trying to keep in mind. I wish I could do more to get ready for Dopey, but I can’t forget where I’m coming from. On one hand, I’m disappointed that I’m not in the right mindset to train harder. But on the other hand, I’m so, so glad that I already have a marathon base. I think the biggest thing I gained from NYCM/Thunder Road training was learning how to push on fatigued legs.

For instance, at mile 11 on yesterday’s 16-miler, my legs had it. They were done. The old Jen would have taken walk breaks and cut the run short (<--- not that there is anything wrong with that at all. It’s how I approached training for over a decade, but I'm happy that marathon training taught me how to get over this hump.) But yesterday that thought didn’t even cross my mind. I just told myself to push past the pain and that I’d feel better soon, and I was right. This is a really new way of training for me, and I’m glad I’ll have that ability with me at Dopey.

That being said, I wish I could have done a true Dopey back-to-back training run (8 miles one day, 16 miles the next) to fully prepare for the challenge. But some other things came up this past weekend, so it didn’t happen.


It snowed in our town in 63 degree temps. Sledding > running when you live in the South.

So, knowing that I likely wouldn’t get in the volume needed for a true Dopey test run, I tried to fatigue my legs other ways. All of my other workouts this week, except for my long run, were intense. Two speedwork sessions on the treadmill, a hilly run with the double stroller, and my second spin class in a month (with a new instructor who likes heavy climbs – ouch).

  • M: OFF
  • Tu: 6 treadmill miles at 8:14, including 4mi of Tabata-style pick-ups
  • W: 45min spin class
  • Th: 3mi double stroller at 9:20 pace
  • F: 5 treadmill miles at 8:04, including 3mi at 7:30
  • S: OFF
  • S: 16mi at 9:05


It was also 60 degrees for my long run. It was heaven.

Another reason I had a better week – besides the amazing weather? I finally braved the gym childcare with both of my children. Wyatt’s at an age where he’s happy anywhere that there’s toys now (and he finally gets that “mommy always comes back”). And Hadley is so chill that she’s content to be in any new environment. I think this is going to be a game changer this winter. I don’t love knowing that my workout could come to a halt at any minute due to an unhappy kiddo, but it sure beats running on cold, dark mornings in my book!


I mustache you some questions

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Christine and Heather tagged me for this fun post. I don’t know why, but I love surveys like this one. It’s like I find out someone else hates olives as much as I do and then we’re destined to be lifelong BFFs or something. I’m weird.


Four names that people call me, other than my real name:

  1. Jen
  2. Miss Jen
  3. Coach Jen

That’s all I’ve got. I’ve never had a legit nickname.

Four jobs I have had:

  1. Waitress
  2. Student facilities gym supervisor
  3. Health communications specialist
  4. Medical writer/ editor

Four movies I’ve watched more than once:

  1. Wedding Crashers
  2. Scream 2
  3. Elf
  4. Finding Nemo

Four books I’d recommend:

  1. Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child
  2. Go, Dog Go
  3. Baa, Baa Black Sheep
  4. Little Owl’s Night

Once upon a time, I used to read but now all I read is kids’ books. These have been Wyatt’s favorites for awhile!


Best baby book ever.

Four places I have lived:

  1. Holmdel, NJ – childhood
  2. Clemson, SC – college
  3. Columbia, SC – grad school
  4. Marietta, GA – when Jeff was in chiropractor school

Four places I have been:

  1. Grand Canyon
  2. Grand Cayman
  3. Grand Floridian
  4. Grand Central Station

Four places I’d rather be right now:

  1. In bed
  2. At the Jersey shore… and while we’re wishing, let’s pretend it’s July, not December
  3. On a Disney cruise <--- sad fact, I was this time last year.
  4. Anywhere warm where I could lay down really

serenity bay

Four things I don’t eat:

  1. Anything that’s lived in the sea, including all fish, seafood, and seaweed
  2. Red meat – due to bad food poisoning the day before my 17th bday
  3. Olives
  4. Mushrooms

Four of my favorite foods:

  1. Pizza
  2. Pineapple
  3. Almonds
  4. Chocolate chip cookies

Four TV shows that I watch:

  1. Big Bang Theory
  2. Scandal
  3. Grey’s Anatomy
  4. Property Brothers

Four things I am looking forward to this year:

Assuming 2015?

  1. Taking my kiddos to Disney for Princess weekend
  2. A week down the shore with my extended family
  3. My parents moving closer (hopefully!)
  4. Breaking up with my breast pump forever

Four things I’m always saying:

  1. Seriously?
  2. I’m so proud of you!
  3. Wyatt… Wyatt… Wyatt… WYATT, CAN YOU HEAR ME?!
  4. Go back to bed, Wyatt.


Just kidding, this sweet boy always listens and sleeps so well. Ok, not really.

Four People I Tag:

Everyone! I must know who else hates olives as much as I do so I can put your Christmas card in the mail! Winking smile

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Feeling Dopey

Posted by runnerstrials

Hadley woke up at 4:50 yesterday morning, as she usually does. Normally, I nurse her, put her back down to sleep, pump, and stay up to do work or workout. But for the past three weeks I haven’t been doing that. I’ve been going back to bed for another hour before both kids wake up.


Or letting them sleep on me since that’s so rare these days!

After NYCM, I still had all of the motivation in the world. Sure, I was sore and tired (and cold), but I was really excited to do Thunder Road. Since crossing that finish line, though, I’ve had zero motivation. After two marathons, months of training, and broken sleep, it really shouldn’t surprise me that all I want to do is be lazy now.

I need to keep training, though, because I’m running the Dopey Challenge in 4.5 weeks – a race that I have been really excited about for the past year and a half. More like super excited about! My husband and I are going to Disney without kids (!) and we planned on racing each other to see who could earn the overall faster time. He’d kill me in the 5k and 10k, we’d probably be pretty even in the half, but I’d likely beat him in the full – so it was going to be an awesome race to see who “won” between the two of us.

However, I’m burnt out. I’ve been trying to strike a balance between listening to my body and training enough to finish Dopey feeling fairly strong but it has been tough. I took 12 days completely off from all workouts after Thunder Road, I’ve been keeping my pace slow on all runs – save for a turkey trot, and I’ve traded early morning runs for afternoon stroller runs. But I don’t feel like I’m doing enough to complete Dopey.

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Yesterday was going to be the day I turned it all around and buckled down with my training. I even had a draft post ready to go about my training “plan” for the next month. But after I fed my daughter and pumped, I went back to bed! I finally got out the door around 9:15 am – more than 3 hours later than planned.

The 14 miles went really well – I averaged an 8:55 pace and was pleasantly surprised by how quickly the run went by. But since I slept in and delayed my run, I didn’t have a chance to bake gingerbread cookies with my son. He didn’t know the difference but I felt awful about it. I’ve never felt like I’ve had issues balancing family and training until now.

I’m at a loss. I don’t know how to approach training for the next few weeks so I feel adequately trained, well-rested, and excited to race when I line up at the start – without sacrificing family time. (More coffee is probably the only logical solution!)


Jeff and I decided to abandon the racing each other idea, and plan on just sticking together for all of the races – which will probably be more fun anyway. I hope to do a 16-17 miler this weekend, a 18-20 miler the following weekend, and get in some decent mid-week runs, too. But I’m not sure that will be enough.

So, I’m feeling pretty dopey for thinking I could handle training for Dopey after the marathons in November. If anyone has some motivational tips or advice for how to approach the next 4.5 weeks, I’m all ears! And, yeah, I’ll definitely be taking some time off after Dopey. Now I know why most athletes take an off-season!